Dear Rachel...

What to do with cheating husband...?
I found out last night that my husband (he was my fiance when he cheated) had cheated on me right before we got married. From what it seems it was sort of a "last fling" thing. It was with a girl he didn't really know that i don't know, and it was only once and just sex. Absolutely nothing else and he says he is most def done and it was a mistake. Blah Blah normal crap. I'm not all that upset about it.... but i am not sure how i should handle it really. We have been completely happy and everything has been fine since. But I'm just not sure... any advice or suggestions to help us move on would be appreciated.

We have been married for a month. It happened about a month and a half ago. And the reason i found out is because he is an idiot and doesnt clean up well. I should mention, before we started dating. He was my bestfriend for about 4 years. Strictly friendship nothing else, and he was never like that before. He has never cheated before. I think i am not severly upset because he is one of those "the gress is green" kind of guys and i think that now that he see's it is not... that there is nothing to worry about. However he is on a short leash at this point and i have all access to everything.

Well I must admit, this is not a good sign, him cheating right before the wedding. This could be a good indicator of how the marriage may end up, based on lies and deceit. I feel if you would not have caught him he would have hid it from you, but because you caught him, he had no choice but to confess. But overall, I feel that he too was trying to get his little fun out before he settled down with you. Since this marriage is so young and since you seem to be forgiving, I would give him another chance, but I would keep a very close eye on him. I am sure if he messes up again, you will catch him since he is so sloppy at hiding the evidence. So give him a chance, but if he messes up again as a married man, then you both need to get some counseling or reconsider the marriage.


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